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Gender question for en femme crossdresser or sissy

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Gender question from a crossdresser

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I love getting emails because I get inspired by your comments, questions and ideas.  Sometimes I will post excerpts of the email here on the blog and then add my thoughts.

I’m always curious about how you see your gender when you are en femme as a crossdresser or a sissy. I think the general public often wrongly wonders if  cross dressers are gay but we know the issues of gender and sexuality are way more nuanced than that!   Not all people who wear panties are the same and I know the difference between a crossdresser and sissy or someone who is transgendered.

Gender and the sissy

There are absolutely adorable sissies who are very clear that they are boys who will be turned into girls at the pleasure of a Mistress.  Many sissy girls want to be called boys and teased while in sissy filly outfits.  This is about the erotic humiliation of being dressed outside of your gender and is often used with small penis humiliation.  Are you curious about whether you’re a sissy or a crossdresser?  Take a listen to the free sexy audio for the sissy in training.

Gender en femme

When you wear women’s clothing … are you dressing in what you should be wearing?  If that is your experience then I don’t think that you are CROSSdressing … I think when you wear your male clothes you’re crossdressing because inside you are a woman.  While I can’t ever totally know your own experience (no one can) I do ‘get it’ about gender and I’d love to hear from you how your feel about your own self.

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia

 

 

 

Crossdresser engagement

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** Listen to the Ms Olivia audio ** If you are a crossdresser

… then you have a wedding fantasy.  At least that’s true for the majority of crossdressers simply because there’s something so uniquely feminine about the whole bridal/wedding experience.  And crossdresser wedding lingerie is sexy to me!  I . . . → Read More: Crossdresser engagement

Ms Olivia asks about your sissy name

 ** Listen to the Ms Olivia sissy name audio ** Femme names are important

The name you choose to express your feminine side is important to any crossdresser or sissy!  I think this is particularly important with the power exchange fetish play that goes on between a Mistress and a sissy.  Often Mistress . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia asks about your sissy name

“Mistress, I Can’t Seem To Stop the Desire To Purge…” (Part Two)

Why Do You Purge?

Are you aware of your reason(s) for purging? Knowing why you purge can help end the cycle. Mistress EmmaJane 800-601-6975

While the driving forces my be the same, purging is a very subjective and individual experience. The reason you purge may seem obvious to you or you may feel . . . → Read More: “Mistress, I Can’t Seem To Stop the Desire To Purge…” (Part Two)

How often do you want to be femme

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Crossdressers and cycles of dressing en femme

How often do you want to dress en femme?  Does your crossdressing go in cycles or would you dress all the time if you were in a situation that allowed you to dress in women’s clothes.  I think this is a reasonable question . . . → Read More: How often do you want to be femme

The Mystery of Mistress’ Missing Panties

**Listen to the Audio Story by Ms. EmmaJane** Where DID I Put Those Panties?

Sissy, have you been coveting your Mistress’ panties?

Pink panties with white lace ruffles fluttering at the hips and a delicate white satin bow on front… Soft and so very silky… Such pretty and femme bikini panties… I . . . → Read More: The Mystery of Mistress’ Missing Panties

Ms Olivia: what is a real sissy

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I got a comment from someone who used the term Real Sissy and we got to talking about what that means … especially in terms of the phone sex scene.  Phone sex is perfect for fantasy exploration and often feminization does not fit well . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia: what is a real sissy

“Mistress, I Can’t Seem To Stop the Desire To Purge…” (Part One)

So You’re Caught In the Cycle of Purging?

Do you need help to stop the cycle of purging?Feminization Phone Mistress EmmaJane800-601-6975

You don’t want to do it, but you can’t seem to stop yourself. When you feel guilt, shame, embarrassment, and/or the fear of being discovered and outed as a sissy or crossdresser, . . . → Read More: “Mistress, I Can’t Seem To Stop the Desire To Purge…” (Part One)

Sissy Valentine’s Day with the men

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 ** Listen to the Ms Olivia audio about sissy ** Sissy is a good sissy

This sissy had a brief time of hiding from her true sissy nature.  We all know that sometimes a crossdresser or a sissy will have the urge to purge.  I always say, do NOT purge when . . . → Read More: Sissy Valentine’s Day with the men

Ladies night at the salon

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 ** Listen to this as a Ms Olivia audio ** Mistress loves a salon day

Don’t you love the phone sex fantasy or the reality of going to a salon for a feminine pampering day?  I do!  I get regular pedicures and manicures so I’m in the salon a lot . . . → Read More: Ladies night at the salon